We all know
Facebook is primarily made for friends and not for dating albeit, of
course, it still taps the latter function. The site’s popularity,
however, kind of makes it the perfect spot for new relationships.
Although the site is mostly used by families and friends to keep in
touch, it still is undeniably a good place for starting new, rather
virtual, friends.
The site
started off as a medium where college students can talk to each
other, update each other about learning programs and well, even
personal lives. Nowadays, literally almost everyone who has access to
the Internet has a Facebook account.
Interestingly, we have some tips for you on how you can start with
that new venture that is Facebook dating!
To
start with, you have to make your profile as interesting as possible.
Make it look good. Post the right pictures – the ones where you
actually look good in, and where you look like you’re actualized.
Make sure that everything you type even just on friend’s walls can
be seen by just about everyone who’s in the website. Be careful!
Facebook is a fashion show, and everything you post must be
runway-worthy.
When
filling in your Facebook data, don’t forget to indicate that you’re
single, that you’re interested in men/women and that you’re your
age. Write your correct birth date, and your correct location. Review
your profile once in a while. Untag yourself in photos that you think
would make people less interested in you.
You
might also want to join a group that’s specialized for Facebook dating. Make sure you join the discussions and are pretty visible in
the site. If you find someone you find attractive, send a message.
Try to come up with something cute and something that makes them have
to reply. Do not be rude or creepy. Maybe even ask a question that
they’ll probably find hard not to respond to.
Don’t
rush things. You can talk to the person through Facebook messages.
Try to get to know each other. When you think it’s ready and when
you’re both online, level up to Facebook chat. Once you know you’re
pretty much “friends” already, you can start commenting on their
photos or liking their posts. Just make sure you don’t post
anything too scandalizing, because everything you post, the people in
his/her life can see.
For
your own good, always be vigilant of frauds. Make sure the person
you’re talking to is legit. Look at their friends. They Should have
family members or friends from her neighborhood on their profile.
Friends from around the world or a very few friends seems very
sketchy. Always be mindful of the information you give out too. Never
make yourself such an open book.
Last
and probably the most important tip is just to always be careful –
in what you say and in what you suggest. When you’ve decided to
meet up, bring a friend on the first meeting! Good luck!
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